That is a frequent question asked of children..easily answered by most small fry...avoided by most teens..why is that? Is it the feeling of being locked in? at 5 there is 'eons' of time before you will start to narrow your training to your chosen career...at 15 schools are starting to push you into courses based on your answers..and the question is more like a test than a fun practice in imagination!
While I do think it is an important question (and fun) I think too much hurry is put on going to college for your choice, and not enough in testing it out...
If a 5 year old says he wants to be a firefighter (my sons frequent pick, along with most other boys!)..we take em to a fire hall. Why don't we do the same with 15 year olds? They can get some info and consider the jr volunteer position (though you may need to be 16, some allow it at 14)?
If a 5 year old wants to be a Dr we get some fun books on anatomy and Drs (JCs current pick)...a 15 year old just needs different books, and may be old enough to volunteer in a hospital to get at least some idea of what it is like. Not to mention old enough to talk with a Dr or two about more details of the job (and the college necessary)
If a 5 year old says they want to be a Pastor(GMCs other pick), out come the books and dinner with the pastor, plus some consideration of service projects that mirror pastor like visits (crafts to hospital patients and shut ins)...why not the same for a 15 year old? Add in some volunteer work in Sunday school, and even ask if you can tag along for some of the pastors visits to shut ins....you will of course need the right kind of pastor.
In almost any career choice a bit of time actually doing the work helps make a huge difference in knowing if the path is right for you......or wrong.
I guarantee I would not be a teacher today if I had not had the need to volunteer in a classroom at 17 (helping family out)....I discovered the career I was avoiding was the right one for me!
Jumping straight to college when you really don't know what your chosen path is like is a recipe for disaster... one that many teens follow.
What do you want to be when you grow up?
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I think a lot of parents don't make sure to keep talking about what the kid is interested in. Sure lots of people ask their kid at age 5, but then they wait until the kid is 15 before asking again. My mother wanted to know constantly what my interests were and that allowed me to develop a better idea of my interests.
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