I had a nightmare, with the pulse racing, fear inducing hormones and all, that my husband had gone and gotten a bunch of silly piercings (all on his ear) and spent around $900 while I was sleeping one night!

The ridiculous things that seem real in dreams never cease to amaze me.

Upon review of the dream while EL was pestering me at 3am I decided the house we had was rather nice, seemed to be deep in the woods, with plenty of space for kids to roam, yet neighbors not to far off. (the one lady came over to console me in my tears)

Of course my husband would never go spending our money willy nilly like that, and certainly not by putting a pound of silver in his ear (really it was like a dozen piercings, some sort of dragon cuff, that admittedly was cool looking, and some extra metal I never did figure out how it stayed on his ear, his whole head should have been drifting to the left to accommodate the metal!)

Money wise we are fairly on the same page, not the smartest page, but it is the same one. We never really find money to be worthy of argument, and I just don't see why it could be. I have no desire to control money, but I also will not shirk from my duty (someone has to pay bills). I can see where a couple with wildly different money habits could run into trouble, but thankfully we have none (except for those nightmares!)