Home > I don't want to share

I don't want to share

July 27th, 2010 at 04:48 pm

I haven't' been posting very much lately. But I do love this site. I love the friendly relaxed atmosphere. I love how kind and considerate most are. I love how advice is freely given, even to the millionth person asking about EFs and such. There is info on saving, investing coupons, and cooking.

In short this is the perfect site for folk looking to get out of debt and get smart about money.

But it is also the one wonderful place I can go to be private. I can vent, whine, post about my holiday problems, or success with saving. Whatever.

While I am sure there are folk here who think I am an idiot, they are kind enough not to tell me. I can't see their faces when they read my posts, so I remain blissfully ignorant.

I can post about how much money we do, or do not, have. Without worry that someone will judge me. Ok so I am sure some folk do, but they don't tell me so.

I have a friend IRL, who could really use some money advice, and part of me wants to share the link here with her....but more of me would rather complain about her money habits......

I suppose if I ever decide to be nice and share I should delete this post.

7 Responses to “I don't want to share”

  1. MonkeyMama Says:

    This is the catch 22 of a site like this. I know people who could benefit from it, and might even enjoy it. But then it wouldn't be my anonymoys safe haven to open my financial soul.

  2. momcents Says:

    Same boat - tho I've been much better and deleted the blog where I did lots of complaining and was ungratuitous about those in my life who need a place like this. Still, it's mine ... I found it first ... and I'm staying.

  3. north georgia gal Says:

    ME THREE!! I don't want to give away my secret space to be completely honest about just about everything going on in my life!

  4. Joan.of.the.Arch Says:

    Well, Princess, it might go both ways. It might be that your friend who could use the help of this site would also feel constrained knowing that _you_ are already here and that you would know who _they_ are.

  5. Homebody Says:

    There are lots of frugal living sites, direct her to one of those....hehehe.

  6. Broken Arrow Says:

    I don't think you're an idiot. You're too hard on yourself. Smile

    But yeah, I can see how this could be an interesting dilemma. Fortunately, I don't know anyone in real life who would actually enjoy and use a place like this. Kind of a shame really. So I guess I don't have to worry about this just yet....

  7. PrincessPerky Says:

    Thanks Smile
    And if it goes both ways, I don't have to feel as guilty not sharing.

Leave a Reply

(Note: If you were logged in, we could automatically fill in these fields for you.)
Will not be published.

* Please spell out the number 4.  [ Why? ]

vB Code: You can use these tags: [b] [i] [u] [url] [email]